Friday, 22 May 2026

limerence

noun

An involuntary state of obsessive romantic attraction, characterized by an overwhelming need for reciprocation.

Nuance

Coined by Dorothy Tennov in 1979: names the specific obsessive quality of romantic infatuation that "love" is too noble to capture.

What he felt was not quite love, it was limerence, all wanting and almost nothing else.

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